Episode 173

EP 173: A Leader’s Guide to Tough Conversations with Anne Tomkinson

Struggling with the emotional weight of layoffs or tough team decisions?

Letting someone go is never easy—especially when they’ve done good work.


In my latest episode of The Executive Appeal Podcast, I sit down with Anne Tomkinson, Senior VP of People & Culture at the National Apartment Association, to unpack what it really feels like to navigate reductions in force—and how to do it with empathy, clarity, and integrity.


We dive into the real cost of these conversations—the emotional toll on leaders and team members—and why the how matters just as much as the decision itself.


🎧 Tune in now to learn:

✅ How to communicate hard decisions without dehumanizing people

✅ What to say (and what not to say) when someone's role is affected

✅ Why empathy isn’t weakness—it’s leadership


If you’re in a decision-making seat, this is required listening.

👥 Know a leader who’s facing tough calls right now? Tag them below.


👇 What’s the hardest part about managing layoffs with compassion?

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About the Podcast

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The Executive Appeal with Alex D. Tremble
For CEOs of $10M–$25M companies who want to stop being the bottleneck.

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Alex D. Tremble

Alex D. Tremble is the Founder and CEO of GPS Leadership Solutions, a bestselling author, and an award‑winning executive coach to CEOs of early eight‑figure, multi‑location companies. With a Master’s in Industrial and Organizational Psychology and over a decade of advising Fortune 500 executives, federal leaders, and high‑growth founders, Alex helps CEOs stop being the bottleneck in their own businesses.

Through his Executive 360 Snapshot and 90‑Day CEO Reset programs, Alex uses his TP3™ framework – Trust, Proactivity, Productivity, Profitability – to reveal how CEOs are truly experienced, pinpoint the behaviors that are slowing everything down, and install simple leadership operating systems so their companies can run fast without them in every decision.

He is the author of five leadership books, including "Leadership Sucks! (Sometimes)" and Unlocking the Executive Advantage, and hosts The Executive Appeal, where he interviews CEOs and senior leaders on the real work of leading companies that no longer depend on hero leadership.